Be on their side, look at instances, occurrences, and all that happens throughout the days, from their perspective. adopt their stance, if only for a minute. it will do good for you. no one truth exists, nothing is correct or incorrect, and nothing is suitable or not. it's only a matter of perspective, and many have different perspectives. you should adopt their perspective. you might as well do that, because you do enjoy, oh so much even, the perspectives of others, of strangers, and you normally take their stand in a debate, you normally keep yourself safe, because you are afraid, you shouldn't be so afraid at the moment, so shy about yourself, about your true self. take their side, please do, it will do you good, you shall benefit from it, you shall prosper and feel much more involved, less alone, you won't be so judgemental towards the one you care so much, you'll be much more accepting understanding that each of us has their struggles, has their weaknesses, and no one is perfect, so stop trying to manipulate others to change their perspective on things, to try and conquer their fears while you don't do the same, please don't you be a hypocrite, don't you! you should always try and be on their side, it is a great and fulfilling feeling, and it is just as wonderful as life can get at this point because you can feel the other person, you are not alone at the moment anymore. you need to be less judgemental of people you care about, but how I ask, albeit all I say here, it's still rather tough to do so. but, understanding that that's who they are, and that's why you like them in the first place, they bring something so different from what you bring to the table. please, conquer the fear and adopt the love, it's not easy at all, and it's even harder with people you sort of know, you feel how they look, how they judge at every moment, but they all feel the same, they all fear, they all get hurt, no one stands on a pedestal, no one is perfect, never. Take a stand in life, seat beside them, hug them, love them, adopt them as they adopt you, accept them as they accept you.
The kiss (Gustav Klimt) 1908
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